Take control of your own healing.
Start fighting for him instead of with him.
I’d like to be a part of your redemption story. I don’t have all the answers to your questions. I’m not a trained counselor or expert. I’m just a woman who’s been where you are and wants to walk with you a while in your journey because I desperately needed a friend like that when I was where you are. It’s so helpful to learn from someone who’s been there.
Only God’s Spirit can bring your man to repentance, but you can influence your husband to seek the Lord and get the help he needs. Even when a man does not “obey the word” he can be “won . . . by the conduct” of his wife (1 Peter 3:1). You possess that power through Jesus Christ!
One last note: this book is for the woman who believes she is safe and hopes to rebuild trust and intimacy in her marriage after her husband has sinned. A key component of restoration is humble, authentic repentance and brokenness in your husband. You are not safe in your relationship if you are experiencing sexual, physical, or verbal abuse or repeated trauma from flagrant sin for which your husband is not repentant. If that's you, stop scrolling this website and call someone who can help you get into a safe place.
I’d like to be a part of your redemption story. I don’t have all the answers to your questions. I’m not a trained counselor or expert. I’m just a woman who’s been where you are and wants to walk with you a while in your journey because I desperately needed a friend like that when I was where you are. It’s so helpful to learn from someone who’s been there.
Only God’s Spirit can bring your man to repentance, but you can influence your husband to seek the Lord and get the help he needs. Even when a man does not “obey the word” he can be “won . . . by the conduct” of his wife (1 Peter 3:1). You possess that power through Jesus Christ!
Whether your marriage is suffering from pornography, addiction, an affair, or just years of unhappiness, Jesus Christ can help you redeem the broken places of your marriage. I wrote Happily Even After to be a friend who walks beside you. I long to help you:
Whether your marriage is suffering from pornography, addiction, an affair, or just years of unhappiness, Jesus Christ can help you redeem the broken places of your marriage. I wrote Happily Even After to be a friend who walks beside you. I long to help you:
Don’t let anyone tell you that pornography isn’t harmful. Prolonged exposure to this twisted version of God’s good gift does tremendous damage. That’s why you need to stop fighting with him and start fighting for him
Yes, Because what your husband has done has most likely caused symptoms of betrayal trauma in you. Understanding that is a critical starting point. In fact, I write about this in chapter 3 of Happily Even After.
These were precious believers whose faith was being rocked by the kind of mind-numbing pain you experience when the man you love reveals secret sin of any kind. No matter how strong we are, it knocks us to our knees. In the pages of Happily Even After, I’ll show you how to care for your own heart before you enter into the work of God’s redemption for your husband and your marriage.
Hey, I should probably introduce you to my husband, Bob! He’s the hero of my heart. No one fought harder than he did for our marriage. The grip of addiction was strong, but Jesus was stronger! (And it’s time to tell you why I love that photo at the top of the page soooo much!) I searched high and low for just the right photo for that spot. It couldn’t be too happy. (Because that can feel like salt in a wound.) But it couldn’t be too hopeless. (You don’t need more of that right now, do you?) When I found this, I knew it was the one!
To help you in this work, my husband, Bob, and I have developed a handful of helpful resources—sort of a Happily Even After toolbox. I hope you will check out the following and use them if they are a good fit for you:
Hey, I should probably introduce you to my husband, Bob! He’s the hero of my heart. No one fought harder than he did for our marriage. The grip of addiction was strong, but Jesus was stronger! (And it’s time to tell you why I love that photo at the top of the page soooo much!) I searched high and low for just the right photo for that spot. It couldn’t be too happy. (Because that can feel like salt in a wound.) But it couldn’t be too hopeless. (You don’t need more of that right now, do you?) When I found this, I knew it was the one!
To help you in this work, my husband, Bob, and I have developed a handful of helpful resources—sort of a Happily Even After toolbox. I hope you will check out the following and use them if they are a good fit for you:
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